All In a Day’s Work
5:30 am – Go running. And by running, I mean dodging stray dogs, motorcycles, roosters, trash, and suspicious puddles on the main street through town for about 3 minutes before calling it quits.
6:00 am – Eat breakfast (today I had cold brown rice + cold oatmeal + milk and honey and it was delicious), shower, get ready, and above all else, avoid blowdrying hair.
6:55 am – Commute via Jeepney. It’s about a 30 second commute.
8:30 am – Start school.
11:30 am – Lunch time. And thank goodness Jollibee delivers.
4:15 pm – Walk home. On the way home, make a pit stop for rice, produce, Oreos, and other essentials.
4:30 pm – Carry groceries home on a busy street full of people, ignoring comments made about my nose and ignoring the fact that every item of clothing on my body is saturated with sweat.
4:45 pm – Get home and bleach produce.
(Sidenote on the bleaching: at the recommendation of other Americans living in Cebu as well as doctors back home in the States, we soak all fresh produce in a large bowl of water with a capful of bleach added to it. It sits for about 5 minutes and then it gets rinsed off with regular tap water. How this works is a mystery to me and I’d like to stop doing it because it’s ruined a few of my shirts. Plus it just seems weird. But then I heard about someone living in Cebu who got a nice fungus on his face from eating a mango straight from the market. So I think I’ll keep bleaching.)
6:00 pm – Dinner at home, dinner with the staff, dinner with visitors and adoptive parents, or kids’ birthday dinners (yes, they celebrate all 83 birthdays). I love dinner. I love food.
7:00 pm – Refrigerated chocolate + blog stuff.
8:00 pm – Cuteoverload.com and other good uses of time.
9:00 pm – Skype time, phone time, I-wish-I-could-hug-you-through-the-computer time.
10:00 pm – The nightly roach patrol. This particular fellow was making his home under our bed, so we do not take this lightly.
10:15 pm – Go to bed and dream about being on this beach. Forever. The End.
nostalgic vibe. I enjoyed reading this blog!
Cica is an efficient anti-ager. View abstract.
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I was looking through all your income reports (so many things to learn from!) and I was surprised to find out you guys actually spent a year here in Cebu. I wonder if you will be visiting here again soon. I would love, love, love to meet you guys (and hopefully get a taste of Lindsay’s delicious cooking, too).
Yes! We are hoping to come back this summer! 🙂 Fingers crossed!
Let me preface by saying I LOVE LOVE LOVE your blog. I also am a food enthusiast at heart. Now, I grew up the first ten years of my life in Cebu. Till this very day I still miss those colorful fruit stalls on the street that sell all the amazing tropical fruits I miss so much. And you are quite right about the cockroaches. A girl will never forget unfortunately. Those suckers came from another planet I swear! They are disgustingly gigantic and they fly and bite! Yuck!!! Anyway, I just wanted to say that you have done awesome work in all aspects from your real job in the orphanage to you teaching children here in the US, and of course as a great blogger of foods and life. Oh and ps…..kamungay and malungay are the same. Kamungay is the Cebuano way of saying malungay.
Thank you for the comment Valerie! Always makes my day to make those Cebu connections. 🙂
eeeeewwwwww!!! Roaches and he cuts off the head with a knife??? as in got close enough to cut the head off??? i hope he threw that knife away! EW! EW! EW!
tip: hair spray or hair mousse works! rubbing alcohol too!(at a squirting distance!) or else, a rolled up newspaper! (ever accidentally touched a house lizard? hehe )
err… no one bleaches food here… did you really do that all through the year you stayed in Cebu? i know my aunt sometimes soak in plain water thin-skinned fruits and vegetables, especially if to be eaten raw – but usually a good rinse in running water would suffice. instead of bleach, a vinegar solution rinse might be better/healthier vs bleach – when i worked on a cruise ship, was told to let the sanitizing spray(bleach/chlorine) air dry naturally for it to work. no rinsing.
Fungus from a mango? Sounds like an urban myth. Maybe he ate it without peeling it? We (or most Pinoys) take roaches for granted but I really hate the flying ones.
Thanks for your website. I hope to do a foodblog as well–I have one currently but it seems to lack a certain focus or hook to make it interesting. It may entertain but it doesn’t inform, and I’d like to be able to do both.
I could start the blog here in the states but in three or four years we will be living on Negros in sorta retirement, so the theme might change. Or maybe there is a theme that could cross intl lines…we will see.
A friend of mine gave me this blogsite to check out your food blogs. I was in awe to know you are in the Philippines. Made me wish I was in your shoes. roaches and all. Filipinos are naturally friendly so those nose comments are their way of admiring your beauty. I thank you for the work you do in the Philippines. May God bless the country more beautiful(inside and out) people like you. God bless you always!
Thank you! It was indeed a friendly comment about the nose… just weird to have people be so… outgoing! 🙂 Thanks for your nice comment.
Glad to hear your transition is going pretty well, and Jollibee for lunch, very cool! Have you tried the local chicharon and Cebu’s lechon yet? And enjoy the beaches, nothing like a weekend at the beach!
No to the chicharon and no to the lechon! I’m behind! I will get there though. 🙂
As always – thanks for this glimpse into your life!
Loved having this little peek into your life in Cebu…and it’s always nice to see a foreign perspective, especially when it is both honest and heartfelt 🙂 Where is that beach? Have you visited Bantayan island (it’s a ferry ride from Cebu)? It’s really lovely!
A husband/partner that is a fearless roach killer is in high demand over here you lucky girl! He killed it with that small knife and big smile?? I’m impressed!
Ha! The big smile was just for the camera. And the beach picture is at Alegre Beach Resort, just an hour or two north of Cebu. We have heard that Bantayan is beautiful… we’ll have to check it out! 🙂
I started following your blog recently, like last month, and I have to say I get SO excited when you have a new post. Now I get even more excited when you have a new post about your new life.
I have many roach horror stories due to lots of traveling, but my latest one was a bathroom roach the size of my palm while I was on Green Island, Taiwan (which is extremely lush and tropical).
I cried on my bed made of rock hard wood for 10 minutes and listened while my brother and his wife closed the door to the tiny bathroom and attempted to kill ONE roach for 10 MINUTES. At one point I actually heard my sister-in-law cry out with equal admiration and frustration “look at that, he’s so smart!” Eeeyeah, horrifying.
So I feel ya sister, but like you said “it’s sink or swim” and it’s you or the roach so you gotta do what you have to.
Take care, and I look forward to all your future posts!
Torri
This seriously made me laugh out loud for like 3 minutes. It is so horrible and awesome at the same time. 🙂 Have you traveled to the Philippines? Do you travel for work or just for fun? Thanks for your comment, Torri!
Hey!
Well I’m glad I could make you laugh! No, I travel just for fun (would LOVE to travel for work) and I have never been to the Philippines, but it’s on my list! My brother lives in Okinawa and was living in Taiwan at the time I went to visit him, so it was awesome to travel Taiwan with a local.
Take care of yourself and keep up the defenses! haha.
I’ve never been to The Philipines, but I have several friends from there and your description seems spot on. Also, the expat experience that you describe reminds me of my life in Santiago, Chile. Granted that Chile will soon be the first developed country of Latin America, there are still certain similar things in how we go about our day. I always find it fascinating to connect with other expats from the States living in other parts of the world. I, like you, dream of being able to be on the beach everyday. Okay, so it’s winter here and the water is pretty cold, but that would be my ideal life 😉
A beach life would be pretty much my dream. 🙂 I assume you are from the States and still living in Santiago?
I don’t know if he told you yet, but Bjork and I are starting a roach killing business when y’all get back to the states. 🙂
Amazing post. You do so well at capturing the images and feelings and just conveying what life there is like for you. I am such a pansy and just can’t even imagine trading my normal suburban American life to go there. My hubby wants to go on a mission trip to Ethiopia and I just can’t bring myself to go along.
I look forward to hearing more about your work there in the Philippines.
Thanks Michelle! You should consider the Ethiopia thing. 🙂 Scary? Yes. Worth it? Yes.
Lindsay,
Every night, when I tuck my kids into bed, I recite what has become our tradition. It seems that you could use a nice “tucking in.” So, here you are: “You are brave and you’re strong and you’re sweet and you’re smart and I am so proud to be your friend. If you need me, I will come for you. Good night. I love you. I will miss you until the morning. Your mom loves you. Your dad loves you. God loves you even more.”
Sweet dreams and peace, dear friend
That’s quite the tuck-in speech! Thanks for your sweet words. 🙂
One of the staff here was just telling us some horror stories about a seafood buffet that put him in the hospital for 4 days thanks to the clams. I think I will avoid the shellfish. 🙂
I love hearing about your life abroad!
We just had our first roach in LA last week and I am forever scarred. {shudder}
REALLY!?!? That makes me feel so much better to know that you have roaches in your nice, clean home. Maybe we’re not as far gone as we think we are. 🙂 On the other hand… sorry to hear about the roach. GAG.
you guys are amazing…love your blog…
Aw, thanks Ila!
You crack me up! I love all of your posts about your experiences in your new home for the year. It seems like you’re making the most of what would probably be unbearable for most of us! Keep these awesome posts coming. P.S. Your nose is super cute, as are you! 🙂
I am guessing the population do not have much of a nose, or a least they are on the flat side???
Ha – yes! I think mine sticks out a bit more than the typical Filipino nose.
What a change of pace!
It really makes you appreciate the little things we take forgranted every day. You are doing amazing work! Enjoy all those birthdays!
They are so special! I feel like I’m about to cry every time they sing happy birthday and pray for the birthday kiddo.
The birthday picture that you’ve shared makes me tear up – it’s so sweet!
Those darn birthdays get me every time. Maybe by the time I leave I will be able to make it through one without getting emotional. Either that or it will be worse. 🙂
What a culture shock, huh? You guys are so brave, and such good examples of trusting God and allowing him to guide you in making these huge life decisions.
I’m a bit of a pansy for that life! 🙁 You must appreciate the little things so much more than I do. Thanks for reminding us of how much we have. I can’t wait to hear more about how much they have too. I know often times people growing up in poverty have a love and joy that outshines the average American’s….
I am a total pansy for this life. But it’s kinda sink or swim at this point, so we try to laugh and make the best of it! Otherwise I’d wither up and die in about 2 seconds. 🙂
Haha love this, especially the roach safe zone! And man, I need to get my hands on that peach mango pie to-go!
Ohhhh they are so good.